snow in summer;
bend the rules;





Regeneration outtake.

(Disclaimer: I love Capaldi)



none sexual with left aromantic

"We need to recognize that for some people sex is great and for some sex is horrific and for some it’s on par with folding laundry."



(~Sex Isn’t Always Good by queenieofaces)

This is a critical part of sex positivity that tends to be overlooked. Let’s celebrate empowering amazing sex and the choice to not have sex, or only have certain kinds of sex. 

“We were grabbing a bite of lunch at a small cafe, in a mall, right across from a booth that sold jewelry and where ears could be pierced for a fee. A mother approaches with a little girl of six or seven years old. The little girl is clearly stating that she doesn’t want her ears pierced, that’s she’s afraid of how much it will hurt, that she doesn’t like earrings much in the first place. Her protests, her clear ‘no’ is simply not heard. The mother and two other women, who work the booth, begin chatting and trying to engage the little girl in picking out a pair of earrings. She has to wear a particular kind when the piercing is first done but she could pick out a fun pair for later.

"I don’t want my ears pierced."

"I don’t want any earrings."

The three adults glance at each other conspiratorially and now the pressure really begins. She will look so nice, all the other girls she knows wear earrings, the pain isn’t bad.

She, the child, sees what’s coming and starts crying. As the adults up the volume so does she, she’s crying and emitting a low wail at the same time. “I DON’T WANT MY EARS PIERCED.”

Her mother leans down and speaks to her, quietly but strongly, the only words we could hear were ‘… embarrassing me.’

We heard, then, two small screams, when the ears were pierced.

Little children learn early and often that ‘no doesn’t mean no.’”


Rolling Around In My Head: No Means Force

HOW THE FUCK IS IT EVEN LEGAL to force a child to have their ears pierced?

…oh, right. Nobody gives a fuck about what children want.

(via brutereason)

It’s scary how accurate this is.

(via remotesandwaffles)



Tumblr: spreading the world apart, one group at a time.

THIS is the shit that bothers me with tumblr

Anonymous whispered:
It's so impressive that you like snakes and spiders and moths. Any other girl would run away screaming, lol. 10 points to you for not being like that. Thank god.





i literally don’t even know what to say

i am lost for words

fuck outta here with your weird patronizing sexist bullshit and have fun never touching a girl ever 


because liking snakes, spiders and moths is automatically a boy thing???

nature is literally for everybody to learn about, marvel at and enjoy.

Every single time I post a photo of one of my PET snakes or PET spiders, it’s always full grown men responding with “Kill it! Burn it! Smash it!” and the girls remarking on how cute and beautiful they are.


Can we please take a moment to appreciate how fucking gorgeous Staraptor’s hair is?

Your nightly reminder that you aren’t worthless, you are a fucking beautiful human being who will make it thru whatever you’re going thru right now